Category: Life

Yea I know I’ve been M.I.A. for a good minute. I paused blogging in September and picked it back up in May of this year. A lot has changed in my life. I was in my last year of ministry school, went back to teaching in the classroom and some personal things that stretched me […]

Y’all I’m really not into drama-filled reality tv like that anymore but for some reason I really like Belle Collective. Let me quickly share what it is then I can share why I enjoy the show. Belle Collective focuses on women in Jackson, MS who are entrepreneurs and business owners. These ladies are the creme […]

I watched the backdoor pilot for All American Homecoming last year. I thought it had a lot of potential. Simone had a good presence on All American with an interesting storyline but to have a spin-off on her character to me was a risk. And it was a risk that turned out to be the […]

I’m finally at a place in my life where contentment is real. It’s not something I’m forcing. Or imagining. Or even hoping for. It’s a real feeling. A state of being for me. And it was a long time coming. Nothing in my life looks how I would have wanted for my age in life. […]

December 24, 2021 my phone was cut off. I was going through a rough time in my winter season. I knew it would because at that time I couldn’t afford to pay the bill. I received a phone call from one of my besties checking in on me and wishing me a Merry Christmas Eve […]

Many doors closed. Many dreams dashed. Hope lost for a very long time. Desire evaporated. Devastation all around. Mounting stress. Heart shattered. Through it all though I count it all joy.  I lived like that for many years. And with nonstop news of destruction it seems like joy would be the furthest thing from my […]

I would rather try than play the game of ‘what if’. I prefer games I have a chance of winning. With that philosophy, I have no regrets, just annoyances.

As someone who has had a pretty good amount of privilege whether I admit it or not, I harbored quite a lot of resentment towards everyone and everything that didn’t go my way. When things didn’t turn out the way I wanted them, unbeknownst to me I would unleash hell on those around me. Or […]

Have you ever come to a tipping point because you have been everything to everybody? You have been the faithful employee that takes work home. The aunt or uncle that babysits at a moment’s notice. The friend that grabs a cake and balloons to celebrate others – and no one is checking on you. Toxic […]

A Toast To Truths is my observation on hushed biz conversations that deserve a public dialogue. These “forbidden” truths often lead to mental, emotional and financial frustration because you don’t know who you can confide in to talk to about these issues. My special guest co-hosts and I are going to reveal the ugly truths […]